Sunday, June 17, 2007

Big update: Marital Status

So if you’ve noticed I haven't posted in a while, well that's because I haven't really felt like putting the following out into the world...but it is what it is so here it goes...
As some of you know, Bobby and I separated about 3 months ago. In fact, it was the weekend after my last post... if I would have known what was coming I probably would have skipped the update post. For those of you that didn’t know about the slpit, it’s a long, tangled story that we won’t get into here, but if your curiosity is killing you, please feel free to ask. We aren't technically divorced yet, but I will be… there is no going back to that relationship. We are waiting until January to make it official. Why you ask… well for those of you that are closest to me, you know why and you understand and think it makes complete sense. If you don’t know why, don’t waste your time wondering, just know that I’m an intelligent women and must be waiting for a good reason. Again, if you feel you just have to know… then ask me. Well I won't really elaborate much further, but so your minds don't go nuts wondering what happened...there was no major event, no cheating, etc. We just both know it's time for it to be over. It was an amicable split and we are still on good terms and get along well. Brayden has adjusted well and for now it doesn't seem to have any major effect on him. I'm sure in time he will struggle and have his moments but we will both be there for him. Any advice you have to offer is much appreciated. Just keep us all in your prayers.